Kuopa kulephera – kukhala moyo popanda kuwoloka Rubicon

Nkhaniyi idapangidwa potengera zolemba zambiri kuchokera ku  njira ya Telegraph ya OpexBot , yowonjezeredwa ndi masomphenya a wolemba komanso malingaliro a AI. Momwe mungagonjetsere mantha olephera komanso kuopa kulephera, momwe mungathanirane ndi mantha komanso momwe mungachotsere kuyembekezera kulephera, ndipo chifukwa chiyani ndikofunikira kuti aliyense achite izi? Kuopa kulephera kumachita chinthu chimodzi chosasangalatsa – kumatifooketsa. Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zolephera kuchitapo kanthu ndicho kuopa kulephera. Popanda kuchitapo kanthu palibe kulephera. Mpaka munthu atachotsa malingaliro oyipa kwambiri awa, sangakhale wokonzeka kudumphadumpha m’moyo wake. Kuopa kulephera ndizochitika mwachibadwa ku zotsatira zosayembekezereka kapena zotsatira zoipa za zochitika zina. Zitha kuchitika m’mbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo, kaya ntchito ndi ndalama, maubale kapena kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu.Kuopa kulephera kungakhale chinthu cholepheretsa chomwe chimatilepheretsa kuzindikira zomwe tingakwanitse komanso kudzigonjetsa tokha.. Njira imodzi yofunika kwambiri yothanirana ndi mantha olephera ndiyo kusintha maganizo anu pa nkhani yolephera. M’malo moopa kulephera, muyenera kukuona ngati mwayi woti mukule ndi kuphunzirapo kanthu. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala chifukwa cha kulephera komwe maphunziro ofunika kwambiri amabwera omwe amatithandiza kukula ndikukhala abwino. Ndiponso, kuti mupirire mantha olephera, m’pofunika kukhala ndi zolinga zenizeni ndi kumveketsa bwino zimene muyenera kuchita kuti mukwaniritse. Kugawa ntchito yapadziko lonse lapansi kukhala tinthu tating’onoting’ono kumathandizira kuchepetsa kuopa kulephera ndikupangitsa njira yopambana kukhala yodziwika bwino. Komabe, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pothana ndi mantha olephera ndikuchitapo kanthu. Nthawi zambiri kuopa kulephera kumatifooketsa ndipo kumatilepheretsa kuchita ntchito zovuta kapena kuyesa. Ndikofunika kuchitapo kanthu ngakhale kuti muli ndi mantha ndikuwonjezera pang’onopang’ono malo anu otonthoza.

Kulephera ndi gawo la moyo. Ngati zolakwa sizingapewedwe, muyenera kuphunzira kwa iwo ndikusintha mkhalidwewo kukhala wopindulitsa.

Chidziŵitso ndi zokumana nazo zingathandizenso kwambiri kuthetsa mantha olephera. Kufufuza mutu, kuphunzira ndi kugawana zomwe takumana nazo ndi anthu ena ochita bwino kungatithandize kukhala odzidalira komanso odalirika pa luso lathu. Pomaliza, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti kulephera sikumapeto kwa msewu, koma kuyimitsidwa kumodzi panjira yopita kuchipambano. Ndikofunikira kuphunzira kuchokera ku zolephera osati kusiyira pamenepo. Kuopa kulephera kungagonjetsedwe ngati tiphunzira kuwona osati chopinga, koma ngati mwayi wakukula kwaumwini ndi akatswiri.

Ndimaopa kupambana chifukwa ndikuwopa kulephera!

Chimodzi mwazovuta zomwe zimadetsa nkhawa ambiri zitha kupangidwa motere: Ndine woyenera kuchita bwino, koma nthawi yomweyo ndikuwopa. Ndikufuna kuyesa china chatsopano, koma ndikuwopa.

Osadandaula, zonse zibwera. Ngati muzichita mozindikira komanso mwadongosolo.

Tiyeni tichite izi. Timayika pambali ma ruble a 200k okhazikika pabizinesi yatsopano, polojekiti, bizinesi, kapena chilichonse chomwe chingakuchitikireni. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, timagwirizanitsa lingaliro lakuti uku ndiko kuyesa kwanu kusintha chirichonse ndikupanga dongosolo pamutu mwanu pasadakhale. Muyenera kukonzekera kutaya ndalamazi. Ndi chindapusa cha mwayi. Ntchito yosakondedwa, wotchi ya alamu m’mawa ndi munthu wonenepa pamsewu wapansi panthaka – zonsezi chifukwa cha mwayi woti musakumane nawonso. Khalani ndi cholinga chodziunjikira ma ruble a EN ndikuchita chilichonse kuti muchite izi. Ndiyeno ingotengani izo ndi kuchita izo. Kutaya 200k kuli bwino kuposa kutaya moyo wanu. Pakukula kwa moyo wanu wonse, miyezi ingapo yapitayi ya ntchito yosakondedwa si kanthu, kumwetulira pamene mukupita ku cholinga chanu chomwe mumachikonda. Muyenera kumvetsetsa chowonadi. Kulikonse kumene mumayika ndalama kuti mukule, pali chiopsezo cholephera … nthawi zonse komanso popanda kupatula. Koma ngati simuika pachiwopsezo, simupeza mamiliyoni amwambi. Mu Reality Transurfing, Zealand molondola adanena kuti ndalama siziyenera kukhala cholinga. Ndi gwero chabe. Ndipo kuti musade nkhawa pang’ono, muyenera kuyika pambali khushoni lina lachitetezo, lomwe lingakuthandizeni kuti “musagwire ntchito” kwa miyezi 2-3 ngati chinachake chikuchitika.

Ngati olemera ali ndi mwayi, inunso mudzakhala ndi mwayi

Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti olemera ndi mwayi chabe. Cholowa, achibale, parade wa mapulaneti. Choyamba, izi sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse. Ena anayamba umphawi. Izi zikutsimikiziridwa ndi zitsanzo zambiri ndi autobiographies. Zimatsatiranso kuchokera kwa iwo kuti kumbuyo kwa munthu wolemera aliyense pali mnzake wokondedwa wa m’kalasi yemwe sanamuyang’ane. Njingayo sakanatha kugula. Nyanja yomwe sakanakhoza kupitako. Koma si mwayi. Chifukwa, mwina, ndi mwayi waunyamata.

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Kachiwiri. Osawerengera ndalama za anthu ena. Ichi ndi chiwonongeko chakufa. Dziwani zomwe anthu opambana adachita kuti awapeze. Ngati simukuopa sitepe yatsopano, ndiye kuti sitepeyo ilibe kanthu. Nthawi zonse pali chiopsezo. Onse pofunafuna ntchito komanso pakuyenda kosavuta paki. Koma simusiya kufunafuna ntchito yabwinoko ndikuyenda m’mipata. Sichomwecho? Chilichonse m’moyo si chophweka. Pamafunika khama lalikulu kuti mukwaniritse ungwiro, koma ungwiro kwakanthawi kumapangitsa kuyesetsa konse kukhala koyenera. Oyamba odziwika bwino adzabwera. Ndipo ndi mawonekedwe osilira a mnzanga wakusukulu pamsonkhano wa alumni, lita Ducati ndi visa yopanda malire ku malo aliwonse padziko lapansi. Koma sizowona kuti mu chidziwitso chatsopano, mudzafunika zonsezi. Padzakhala zolinga zatsopano ndi nsonga zatsopano. Kuthamanga-kuthamanga-kuthamanga. Ichi ndi chisangalalo cha moyo. Chitanipo kanthu, mudzakhalanso ndi mwayi.Kumbukirani kuti mukapambana, anthu adzayiwala zolephera zanu .