Ukwesaba ukwehluleka – phila impilo ngaphandle kokuwela i-Rubicon

Lesi sihloko sidalwe ngokusekelwe ochungechungeni lokuthunyelwe okuvela  esiteshini se-OpexBot Telegram , okungezelelwe umbono wombhali kanye nombono we-AI. Indlela yokunqoba ukwesaba ukwehluleka nokwesaba ukwehluleka, indlela yokubhekana nokwesaba nokuthi ungasusa kanjani ukulindela ukwehluleka, futhi kungani kubalulekile ukuba wonke umuntu enze lokhu? Ukwesaba ukwehluleka kwenza into eyodwa engathandeki kakhulu – kuyasikhubaza. Esinye sezizathu zokungenzi lutho ukwesaba ukwehluleka. Ngaphandle kwesenzo akukho ukwehluleka. Kuze kube yilapho umuntu esusa lo mzwelo omubi kakhulu, ngeke alungele ukwenza i-quantum leap empilweni yakhe. Ukwesaba ukwehluleka kuwukusabela okungokwemvelo kokungabikezeli kwemiphumela noma imiphumela engemihle engaba khona yezimo ezithile. Kungenzeka ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene zokuphila, kungaba umsebenzi kanye nokutshalwa kwezimali, ubudlelwano noma ukufeza izinjongo zomuntu siqu.Ukwesaba ukwehluleka kungaba isici esikhawulelayo esivimbela ukuba siqaphele amandla ethu futhi sizinqobe thina.. Enye yezindlela eziyinhloko zokunqoba ukwesaba ukwehluleka ukushintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ngokuhluleka. Esikhundleni sokwesaba ukwehluleka, kufanele ukubheke njengethuba lokukhula nokufunda kulokho okuhlangenwe nakho. Ngokuvamile kuvela ekuhlulekeni lapho kufika khona izifundo ezibaluleke kakhulu ezisisiza ukuba sithuthuke futhi sibe ngcono. Futhi, ukuze ubhekane nokwesaba ukwehluleka, kubalulekile ukuzibekela imigomo enengqondo futhi ucace ngalokho okudingeka kwenziwe ukuze uyifinyelele. Ukwehlukanisa umsebenzi womhlaba wonke ube imisebenzi engaphansi emincane kuzosiza ukunciphisa ukwesaba ukwehluleka futhi kwenze indlela eya empumelelweni yazi kakhudlwana. Nokho, into ebaluleke kakhulu ekubhekaneni nokwesaba ukwehluleka isenzo. Ngokuvamile ukwesaba ukwehluleka kuyasikhubaza futhi kusivimbele ekwenzeni imisebenzi enzima noma ukuhlola. Kubalulekile ukuthatha isinyathelo naphezu kokwesaba futhi kancane kancane wandise indawo yakho yokunethezeka.

Ukwehluleka kuyingxenye yempilo. Uma amaphutha engenakugwenywa, udinga ukufunda kuwo futhi uguqule isimo sibe inzuzo yakho.

Ulwazi nolwazi nakho kungadlala indima ebalulekile ekunqobeni ukwesaba ukwehluleka. Ukuhlola isihloko, ukufunda nokwabelana ngolwazi nabanye abantu abaphumelelayo kungasisiza sihlakulele ukuzethemba nokuzethemba ngamakhono ethu. Okokugcina, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukwehluleka akukona ukuphela komgwaqo, kodwa isitobhi esisodwa nje endleleni eya empumelelweni. Kubalulekile ukufunda ekuhlulekeni futhi ungagcini lapho. Ukwesaba ukwehluleka kunganqotshwa uma sifunda ukungakuboni njengesithiyo, kodwa njengethuba lokukhula komuntu siqu kanye nomsebenzi.

Ngiyesaba impumelelo ngoba ngesaba ukwehluleka!

Enye yezinkinga ezikhathaza abaningi ingahlelwa ngale ndlela: Ngifanele impumelelo, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ngiyayesaba. Ngifuna ukuzama into entsha, kodwa ngiyesaba.

Ungakhathazeki, konke kuzofika. Uma ukwenza ngokuqaphela nangokuhlelekile.

Masenze lokhu. Sibekela eceleni ama-ruble angu-200k anemibandela ebhizinisini elisha, iphrojekthi, ibhizinisi, nanoma yini eyenzekayo kuwe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, sifaka ngaphakathi umqondo wokuthi lo ngumzamo wakho wokushintsha yonke into futhi wakhe uhlelo ekhanda lakho kusengaphambili. Udinga ukulungela ukulahlekelwa yile mali. Imali yethuba. Umsebenzi ongathandwa, iwashi le-alamu ekuseni kanye nomfana okhuluphele esitimeleni – konke lokhu ngenxa yethuba lokungaphinde uhlangane nabo. Zibekele umgomo wokuqongelela ama-ruble angu-EN futhi wenze yonke into ngalo mgomo. Bese-ke vele ukuthathe ukwenze. Ukulahlekelwa ngu-200k kungcono kunokulahlekelwa impilo yakho. Ngesilinganiso sempilo yakho yonke, izinyanga ezimbalwa zokugcina zomsebenzi ongathandwayo azilutho, mamatheka njengoba usondela emgomweni wakho owuthandayo. Udinga ukuqonda iqiniso. Nomaphi lapho utshala imali ukuze ukhule, kunengozi yokwehluleka … njalo futhi ngaphandle kokukhetha. Kodwa uma ungathathi izingozi, ngeke uzuze izigidi zesaga. Ku-Reality Transurfing, i-Zealand yasho kahle ukuthi imali akufanele neze ibe umgomo. Kumane kuyinsiza. Futhi ukuze ukhathazeke kancane, udinga ukubeka eceleni omunye umcamelo wokuphepha, ozokuvumela ukuthi “ungasebenzi” izinyanga ezingu-2-3 uma kwenzeka okuthile.

Uma izicebi zinenhlanhla, nawe uzoba nenhlanhla

Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi abacebile banenhlanhla nje. Ifa, izihlobo, umbukiso wamaplanethi. Okokuqala, lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Abanye baqala ngobumpofu. Lokhu kuqinisekiswa yizibonelo eziningi kanye ne-autobiographies. Kuphinde kulandele ukuthi ngemuva kwawo wonke umuntu ocebile kukhona umfundi afunda naye othandekayo owayengambheki. Ibhayisikili akakwazanga ukulithenga. Ulwandle akakwazanga ukuya kulo. Kodwa akusiyo inhlanhla. Isizathu, cishe, inhlanhla embi yobusha.

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Okwesibili. Ungabali imali yabanye abantu. Lesi yisiphetho esingenasici. Thola ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo ezithathwe abantu abaphumelele ukuze bazizuze. Uma ungesabi isinyathelo esisha, isinyathelo ngokwaso asinandaba. Kuhlale kunengozi. Kokubili lapho ufuna umsebenzi futhi phakathi nokuhamba okulula epaki. Kodwa awuyeki ukufuna umsebenzi ongcono futhi uhambe emigwaqweni. Akunjalo? Konke empilweni akulula. Kuthatha umsebenzi omningi ukufeza ukuphelela, kodwa ukuphelela kwesikhashana kwenza wonke umzamo uzuze. Isigidi sokuqala esidume kabi siyofika. Futhi ngakho ukubukeka okujabulisayo komfundi ofunda naye emhlanganweni we-alumni, ilitha ye-Ducati kanye ne-visa engenamkhawulo kunoma iyiphi indawo yokungcebeleka emhlabeni. Kodwa akulona iqiniso ukuthi ekwazini okusha, uzodinga konke lokhu. Kuzoba nemigomo emisha kanye neziqongo ezintsha. Run-run-run. Lokhu kuyinjabulo yokuphila. Thatha isinyathelo, nawe uzoba nenhlanhla.Khumbula ukuthi uma uphumelela, abantu bazokhohlwa ukwehluleka kwakho .